Recent incidents involving Nigerian students in the UK have prompted concerns about the image of Nigeria and its citizens abroad. Toyyib Adewale Adelodun, a Nigerian life coach, motivational speaker, mental health advocate, and social change influencer, engaged in a conversation with UK correspondent Richard Edoki about these issues and the broader implications of Nigerian migration to Western countries.
Adelodun acknowledged that the actions of a few individuals can tarnish the reputation of an entire country. However, he emphasized that these incidents do not represent the majority of Nigerians, who are law-abiding and hardworking individuals.
He also highlighted the complex factors that drive Nigerian migration to Western countries, such as the pursuit of better opportunities and improved living standards. While these motivations are understandable, Adelodun cautioned against glorifying migration and urged individuals to carefully consider the potential challenges and realities of life abroad.
In the interview, Adelodun discussed a range of issues affecting Nigerians in the UK, including education, employment, integration, and mental health. He offered valuable insights and advice for Nigerian students and migrants, emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility, cultural sensitivity, and resilience.
This interview provided a nuanced and thought-provoking perspective on the experiences of Nigerians in the UK and the broader phenomenon of Nigerian migration.
At what point in your life did you decide that advocacy for a change of mindset for a better lifestyle should be included in your civil engineering career?
I started writing online around three years ago. I had a Twitter account for a long time, but I don’t think I had any followers until October of 2020. That was when I started writing online, and I just wanted to give back to young people, just to help them understand how things go, particularly if they come from a background without support.
After dropping out of school three times due to an extreme mental health crisis; I was in the hospital for about six months, and I went back as an undergraduate at thirty. I joined the construction industry as a laborer and I worked my way up to project management. I share my experiences with youth so they can understand how to navigate the challenges that may arise.
During my decade long construction career, I thought about workers’ building a house and getting paid with the thought in their mind, “I’m living my life and I will do well if I continue on this path”. Yes, I will make money, but how can I teach someone else how to do it? How can I help someone else to navigate this world that is very tough? This is the reason why I have decided to take time out to start writing about my experiences while growing up so others whom are going through a similar situation will know that they are not alone.
My thought process is what prompted me to start writing and it just snowballed from there. Today, hundreds of persons have benefited positively from the things that I have written. They have also benefited from the things that they have written to me. In return, I have received many gifts that show their appreciation and have given me some of the best feelings of happiness. This is why I have chosen to take my career to the next level; so I can support the people that so desperately need my help.
What are the lessons for Nigerian students studying in the UK, those intending to study, and other Nigerian immigrants living and working in the UK from the trial of Somtochukwu Okwuoha, a Nigerian Master’s student found guilty of making terrorist threats against his school, and many other offenses committed by other Nigerians in the UK?
In the case of this student who is facing jail and deportation for making terrorist threats against his school, though we do not know the full facts of the case yet, I think that there will be much that will come out of it that will give a clearer picture of what has happened. However, we can draw from that case and some other cases, such as allegations of rape and sentencing of some students, that we have heard of involving Nigerians who came to study in the United Kingdom.
First of all, it is important to note that the number of students who commit offenses and are found guilty and sentenced to jail is a very small fraction of the total number of Nigerian students who come to the UK. This does not reflect on all of the law-abiding Nigerians who come to study and do very well.
The majority of Nigerian students do very well. However, as with any group of people, there will always be some bad eggs. This is not unique to Nigerians; it is a general aspect of human nature. Nevertheless, there are some important things that Nigerian students can learn from this case.
One key lesson is that ignorance of the law is not a defense in the UK. You must understand the laws that govern the society in which you are living. There are things that you can do and things that you cannot do. The irony is that we have laws in Nigeria as well, but we may not have been as effective in enforcing them and ensuring that justice prevails.
In the UK, where everything is digitalized, your actions can be easily traced and investigated. It is crucial to stay away from crime as much as possible.
Here are some specific tips for Nigerian students in the UK:
Understand the laws: Familiarize yourself with the laws of the UK before you come.
Beware of accidental involvement in crime: Some students have inadvertently been dragged into committing a crime. For example, they may come to the UK and live with someone who is involved in a crime. When the police investigate, they may take everyone away, even those who are not directly involved. Even if you are eventually found innocent, the stress of the investigation can derail your studies.
Avoid scams: Be cautious about requests to use your bank account to transfer money. Criminals know that students have access to bank accounts, and they may try to take advantage of you.
Manage alcohol consumption: If you cannot handle alcohol, stay away from it. If you touch someone without their consent under the influence of alcohol, you can be arrested and prosecuted. Alcohol intoxication may not be a sufficient defense for your actions.
Understand cultural differences: Parents who bring their children to the UK should be aware of the rules regarding child treatment in this country. Certain trigger words can lead to social services involvement. Words that may be considered normal in Nigeria may not be acceptable in the UK.
Be proactive: Understanding the law is crucial for navigating life in the UK. We come here to succeed, not to run into problems. However, if you don’t understand where the problems come from, ignorance can hurt you. Don’t just assume you know what you’re doing. Learn the rules and avoid getting into trouble with the law.
What are the support systems or resources available for Nigerian students in the UK to enhance their personal development and academic success?
There is a plethora of resources available for international students in the UK, and it is crucial to recognize the importance of community. Joining communities and actively participating can provide access to valuable knowledge, shared experiences, and a supportive network.
On Twitter, for instance, the NI-UK community, in which I am a senior member, serves as a vibrant hub for Nigerians. With over ten thousand members, this community fosters knowledge sharing, experience exchange, and while there may be occasional disagreements, the overall sentiment is one of mutual support and growth. By engaging with this community, you gain access to valuable insights from those who have navigated similar paths, accelerating your personal and academic development.
Last week, I attended an event hosted by another community called Outliers Circle, founded by a young Nigerian woman who arrived in the UK three or four years ago. Inspired by her own experiences, she established this community to give back, and it has flourished over time, now boasting an alumni network of approximately five hundred members.
Your church, mosque, or local ‘Assalatu’ can also serve as valuable communities. Engage with others, share your experiences, and seek guidance.
Most schools have student resource centers that offer a wealth of support and resources. Maximize these resources to your advantage.
When I attended South Bank University, I utilized the library’s laptop loan program and made full use of the available books. We should strive to maximize every available resource upon our arrival.
On LinkedIn, search for alumni from your prospective school who are currently working in your desired field. Connect with them to gain valuable insights and establish potential connections.
If you are pursuing a career in civil engineering, consider joining the Institute of Civil Engineers as a student member. They offer various workshops and meetups that can enhance your professional development.
Additionally, explore online platforms like Meetup to connect with individuals in your industry. Attend meetups, learn from their experiences, and expand your professional network.
Do not hesitate to reach out to others and proactively pursue opportunities. You will be surprised by the number of people willing to share their knowledge and experiences. This openness to sharing is not something we often encounter back home.
Remember, your university is your first and foremost resource. Utilize every available resource, attend conferences, participate in volunteering opportunities, and seek internships.
A website called, “Ten Thousand Black Interns,” provides a platform for finding internship opportunities in advance, rather than waiting until the end of your studies.
Always start with the end in mind and work backward. Plan your career path, identify potential employers, and actively seek opportunities to enhance your employability profile.
These are just a few of the many strategies Nigerian students in the UK can employ to maximize their personal and academic success. By embracing community, utilizing resources, and proactively pursuing opportunities, you can achieve your goals and thrive in the UK.
With the recent decision of the UK government to end the admittance of dependents of some categories of students into their country beginning from January 2024, what other options are there for families?
From January 2024, students pursuing master’s degrees will not be permitted to bring their dependents to the UK unless the course is research-based. This policy change by the Home Office has prompted prospective students to consider alternative countries that allow them to bring their families.
The decision to restrict family visas is likely driven by the Conservative government’s aim to reduce migration numbers. While we must abide by the laws of the land, it is crucial to seek a win-win situation where both the UK and African students can benefit.
In the past, some students whom have completed their studies were forced to return home due to their Post-study work visa being revoked. The new family visa policy may necessitate adjustments.
It is essential to understand the UK’s internal politics, particularly the evolving migration laws and the government’s stance on immigration. In 2019, an international strategic report outlined the government’s goal of attracting 600,000 international students to boost the UK economy following Brexit.
Given that the UK government sets and amends the laws, we must adapt our strategies accordingly. Consider whether you can emotionally and financially sustain yourself without your partner’s support while studying in the UK. Explore alternative countries that allow student visas for dependents.
The “Japa” phenomenon, driven by the desire for better opportunities, has seen a surge in Nigerians migrating to Western countries, primarily on student visas. What can the Nigerian education system learn from the UK system to better prepare students for international studies, personal development, and the global marketplace?
We can glean valuable insights from the UK’s approach to education, particularly in the area of feedback. During my time at South Bank University and the Open University, I observed a service-oriented approach to education. Students are valued customers, and feedback surveys are frequently administered to gauge satisfaction.
In contrast, the UK system views academic failure as a reflection of the teaching methodology, prompting lecturers to re-evaluate their approach. The focus is on providing a conducive learning environment for students.
The UK’s centuries-long investment in education is evident in its well-equipped libraries, accessible even to alumni, ensuring a wealth of resources for research and learning. Additionally, laboratory facilities are well-maintained, and technology integration is seamless.
Another key aspect is the strong connection between academia and industry. Students gain exposure to real-world applications, preparing them for the demands of the job market.
While UK lecturers advocate for better compensation, it’s worth considering the remuneration and benefits packages of lecturers back home. Do their earnings allow them to contribute effectively to the education system?
Factors such as class sizes, marker boards, sound systems, and curriculum updates must also be addressed. We must ensure that our students graduate with the skills and knowledge required to thrive in the global marketplace.
The rising unemployment rate in Nigeria highlights the need to equip our students for global competitiveness, not just within Nigeria or Africa. Our curriculum should align with the expectations of global employers, ensuring that graduates are readily employable worldwide.
Moreover, the federal government’s allocation of funds to education needs significant improvement. In many instances, governance expenditures exceed education spending, hindering progress.
By adopting these measures, we can effectively prepare Nigerian students for international studies, personal development, and success in the global arena.
If you could address the minds of Nigerians living abroad, what advice would you, Toyyib Adewale Adelodun, the civil engineer turned personal development advocate, offer?
First and foremost, I would like to emphasize that living abroad is not as easy as many perceive it to be. It is crucial to give yourself ample time to adjust to your new environment.
Once you have settled in, immerse yourself in the system as much as possible. If you are a student, register to vote and obtain your professional license and national insurance. Understanding the societal norms and structures is essential.
Thirdly, expand your network by connecting with people at your church, mosque, or school. Avoid isolating yourself. Embrace the opportunity to absorb as much knowledge as possible. Not everyone has the privilege of experiencing Western society firsthand.
Therefore, strive to learn from their practices and incorporate them into your own life to become more valuable and contribute meaningfully to your homeland.
Initially, dedicate time to familiarize yourself with the system and its workings. Approach each step with a genuine desire for knowledge, asking the right questions and seeking out every opportunity to expand your understanding.
Remember that China’s economic growth and technological advancements were fueled by the knowledge and expertise gained by their students studying abroad. Utilize this opportunity to learn from societies with centuries of democratic experience and economic success.
Adapting to life abroad will undoubtedly present challenges. However, remain patient and persistent. Don’t let your circumstances limit your aspirations.
When I began my construction career, I earned just five pounds per hour. However, as I progressed, my compensation increased.
Opportunities will emerge when you aim high, pursue qualifications, and excel in your chosen field. Despite your current limitations try to focus on excelling academically, networking extensively, and refusing to accept rejection.
When applying for jobs, don’t hesitate to advocate for yourself and highlight your strengths. Create a compelling resume, cover letter, and portfolio showcasing your abilities.
You’ll be surprised at the opportunities that arise when you confidently market yourself. As they say, the rest is history.
